You may be one of those women who has tried everything to make her man more interested in you. If you haven’t gotten results after so many tries, then it’s time you didn’t make yourself available to this man.
The big surprise.
This man may already be so used to the idea that you’re always around that when you surprise him with a sudden absence, he’s sure to notice. Let him wonder where you are.
Never let him know where you are.
You’ve kept this up long enough, so make it work for you. If you go to your friends to ask where you are, you get no answer. If you go to your family, you’ll get the same answer: they don’t know where you are. This should worry you.
Fight the urge to call him.
The next sure move this man would try to think of is to call you. Don’t turn off your cell phone, just let all calls from him go to your voice mail. Even if you’re anxious to answer his calls, make sure you don’t so he realizes how adamant you are this time.
Show yourself only after a long absence.
Not only will he be too worried, this guy’s attention will definitely be on you. He’ll want to know where you went, what pushed you to take a sudden sabbatical, and he’ll practically be all over you. Respond to all inquiries from him saying that it was a personal decision.
Let him see and feel a great change in you.
Remember how men always fall for the most beautiful women? Make him see the efforts you put into looking good. Be more beautiful and be consistent in looking beautiful all the time.
Don’t agree to go out with him yet.
If in the past he was used to receiving a yes on every one of his invitations, now he will wonder why you don’t even accept his offer to go out with you. Create an excuse not to go out with him and let him see you having fun with your friends.
Do not confirm or deny that you are dating someone else.
This should really drive him crazy. Let him keep guessing whether or not you’ve taken a sudden break because you’re already involved with someone else. Your increased lack of availability should already bother him and if he really loves you, he should now do his best to get your attention once again.