For many couples, intercourse is by far the preferred form of sexual engagement, but it doesn’t have to be the only way two people connect sexually. Masturbation is also an important part of a person’s sex life, and sharing it with a partner can be a great way to add a new level of intimacy to a relationship. Men masturbate anyway, as a matter of course and as an aid to their penis health, so why not incorporate it into couples play? Of course, some people may be a bit shy or reluctant to masturbate in front of their partner, in which case a few simple masturbation games can help “break the ice.”

What are some masturbation games that a couple could use to add a new dimension to their sex life? The possibilities are endless, but here are some ideas to get you started.

use dice

A pair of dice can be useful as a masturbation aid. For example, assign odd numbers to women and even numbers to men. Throw the dice. If the total is odd, the woman begins to masturbate; yes, man still does. Let’s say she rolls “six.” The man starts stroking and continues stroking as the woman rolls the dice again. If he is even again, the man continues stroking and does so until the woman rolls an odd number, at which point he jerks off and the man rolls. The game continues in this way until orgasm is reached.

In one variation, one player rolls the dice and the other player must stroke his penis or rub his vagina the number of times shown on the dice. Players can also decide that instead of masturbating, they masturbate their partner.

use cards

Playing cards can also be helpful in facilitating masturbation with a partner. A simple game of strip poker can be used to undress the participants. After a player has removed all his clothes, he can bet a number of strokes on a poker hand, such as “I see your four strokes and I’ll raise you three.” Whoever loses the hand then strokes or rubs the required number.

Another alternative: assign two suits (say, diamonds and hearts) to the woman and two (spades and clubs) to the man. Flip over the top card of the deck; whoever reveals the stick masturbates the number of strokes indicated on the card. So a nine of clubs would mean that the man strokes his penis nine times. (Face cards may be designated as 10 each.) He continues flipping until all the cards have been played, then start again, but this time, the number of hits is doubled. So an ace requires two hits, a two requires four, etc.

play hide and seek

Traditional rules apply, except players are nude. The hiding player starts masturbating as soon as he hides; the seeker as soon as they finish counting.

Adapt a drinking game

Many drinking games involve watching a TV show or movie and taking a drink each time a certain word is said or a situation occurs. Try this, except make rules to masturbate instead of drinking. For example:

– Jerk off ten strokes every time the main character’s name is mentioned.

– Whenever a number is mentioned, caress each other ten times that number.

– When watching a horror movie, start masturbating when the creepy music starts and continue until it stops.

Masturbation games can add excitement to a long-lasting relationship, but men want to make sure their members are in good shape for this type of tournament. Using a Top Cream for Penis Health (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, that is clinically proven to be gentle and safe for the skin) to be able to help. Look for a cream that includes L-arginine, an amino acid that helps produce the effect of keeping the blood vessels in the penis open and receptive to proper blood flow. The best cream should also include acetyl L carnitine, which protects against peripheral nerve damage that can occur during rough masturbation and can decrease sensitivity in the penis. Being prepared makes games more fun!