Are you aggressive in bed? Do you take charge when it comes to sex, or are you just a bit more shy and reserved? And do women WANT an aggressive sexual partner, or do they prefer someone who is kind, soft and sensual? In this article, we’re going to take a quick and insightful look at what women really want when it comes to a passionate partner…and how much aggressiveness is (or isn’t!) arousing. Are you curious to know more? Great…read on as we take a closer look below!

Okay, but don’t women prefer a man with a “slow hand”? I thought most women really want a gentle lover?

The truth? It is impossible to generalize! All women have different tastes when it comes to what they want in bed, and aggressiveness, or lack thereof, is NO exception. But the truth is, THERE ARE universals…and things that most women will NOT admit to being arousing, and an aggressive lover happens to be one of them!

What does aggressive really mean in bed? How can I know if I am aggressive or not?

Honestly, aggressive simply means that you are sexually assertive. You take the initiative. You know what you want. You are direct… and you take control. To be honest with you, A LOT of women rate an assertive, authoritative and passionately POWERFUL man as one of the most exciting between the sheets… EVEN if she doesn’t seem like the type she would!

This is also quite interesting.

Do you want to know who REALLY seems to love an aggressive man in bed? Aggressive WOMEN…out of bed! Yes, that’s right…when they do sex surveys and personality tests about disadvantages and rejections…many women who LOVE to be in control OUT of bed…really crave and desperately desire powerful, assertive men. , In bed. Many of these types of successful women also fantasize about being sexually dominated by an aggressive lover, which I always find super sexy, and really fascinating too! (Sex is always such a surprise… you NEVER really know what someone is like until you put them in bed.