In the same way that an animal can be someone’s pet, a man can be in a very similar position. Then, like the animal, he will be almost out of touch with his instincts and it will not be difficult to control him.

The difference is that while the animal will be controlled primarily at home, man can be controlled both at home and in the outside world. When he is at home, he can be controlled by his partner or his friend/s, or with whom he lives.

An object

Once you have left this environment and entered the real world, you may end up being controlled by your bosses and peers. In addition to all this may be the control that the government exercises over it.

As for who will have control, you can have a dog or a cat, but even if you have a cat, you probably won’t have much control over it. If anything, this could be seen as an animal that will have a higher level of freedom and self-expression than him.

a different being

Unlike a dog, this type of animal will not be fully domesticated and will not be able to fend for itself. So if you were to leave your cat, assuming he has one, for a few days, chances are he could find something else to eat.

That is as long as this cat is free to go out into the outside world. If he had to rely on his hunting skills to find something to eat, he probably wouldn’t last long.

a short period of time

However, although a dog, for example, will have been born more or less domesticated, the same cannot be said of man. This is not to say that he was not born into a family or even a society that was filled with people who were not domesticated.

Still, the fact that he’s as turned off as he is shows that there must be at least one person in his family of origin who wasn’t. Most likely, during his early years, this person, and with the help of society as time went on, would have played a role in removing the wild aspect or energy from him.

an unconscious process

This does not mean that this person consciously chose to deprive man of the part of himself that would allow him to own himself, feel alive, express himself freely and protect himself. What would fuel this part of him would be his aggressive/fighting instinct.

Therefore, with this part of his being out of the way, he is like a male dog that has been neutered. Then he will look like a man and he will be like many other men, men who have also been castrated, but he will not have access to the thrust that many of his ancestors would have had access to.

a destructive impact

But, even though this person might not have consciously chosen to do this, this is what would have happened anyway. When it comes to who this person was, this could have been her father.

So it wasn’t someone he saw in the outside world from time to time who undermined him (although this may also have happened); no, he was the person I saw every day at home that he did. His father may have abused him in several different ways; there could have been physical, verbal and emotional abuse.

no choice

As he was powerless and totally dependent during his early years, he would not have been able to do anything about what he was going through. His only option was to disconnect from himself and tolerate it.

Interestingly, his father may not have been in control of himself either, as his partner/wife may have completely dominated him. So he was a domesticated man and the way he treated his son may have allowed him to release some of the tension that had built up from being mistreated by his partner // his wife, the mother of his son the.

an investment

What this probably shows is that his father and perhaps his mother were more concerned with their own needs. So by having a son who displayed strength and masculinity, one or both parents felt threatened.

The injuries, most of which probably date back to his early years, would have prevented them from fully entering his consciousness by essentially knocking out his son’s aggressive/fight instinct. By beating this side out of him, they ended up with a very docile version of him and were able to mold him into what they wanted him to be.

history repeats itself

Your parents probably went through a very similar process during their early years by parents who were as if not more damaged. Thanks to being in a position of power, they were able to experience indirect revenge.

Unaware of their own pain, which actually motivated their behavior, they may have rationalized their abuse as being for their own good and providing “discipline.” In reality, receiving the love, support, and guidance he needed to be able to stay connected and, as a result, integrate his inner fire, would have been for his own good.

Awareness

Thanks to his own inability to deal with his own injuries and continuing a pattern of abuse that likely goes back many, many generations, his son was unprepared for the real world. Instead, he was greatly diminished and created to be endlessly victimized by others.

If a man can relate to this and is ready to turn his life around, he may need to seek outside support. This is something that can be provided with the help of a therapist or healer.