There is a lot to be said for female-led relationships.

They are not always what people think they are. For example, many people assume that a female-led relationship means that the man is an unwitting slave to a very dominant female partner and has no rights or say in anything that happens.

A common fantasy, to be sure, but unfortunately a very rare one.

In fact, in the relationship directed by a woman, the man is usually directed by choice. He wants to be the one in the relationship to have a dominant partner. He is very aware of his role and is happy with it.

That does not mean that his role is that of a slave. Rather, the man in female-led relationships is simply the one who lets the woman be in charge. There are many men out there who prefer not to be bothered by big decisions and want to make sure that their lady love is satisfied, so they give her the reign to be the one to call the shots.

They also give her the key to her chastity device. It’s not as unusual as you might think. Male chastity is very common and very beneficial for your relationship. I know you’ve probably heard that it’s about female dominance and male submission, but that doesn’t even come close to the real reasons behind male chastity.

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Male chastity is the conscientious decision you make to give your beloved control of your desires. You may wonder why I would want to do this, but let me tell you, it helps her relationship on the most intense emotional and pleasure levels.

By practicing male chastity and letting your partner take the lead, you are freeing yourself to explore his needs. Maybe she wasn’t satisfied in bed all the time. Maybe she was too nervous to tell you what she wanted.

In the realm of emotions, it opens you up to further explore the thoughts of others. You and your partner will spend more hours focusing on mental stimulation than physical stimulation in your relationship.

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Don’t get me wrong, there is plenty of physical stimulation available, in the bedroom and outside the bedroom.

Even in chastity, you can be pleasured, provoked, and tormented by desire.

A female-led relationship just means she can tell you when and how you’ll be pleasured…and you’ll love that.

If that sounds intriguing and exciting, then you owe it to yourself and your lover to discover more about the excitement and eroticism inherent in male chastity in a female-led relationship.